Well guys, quit it!
I think tw is right. I do want to learn these things. To be honest, I have not tried everything he has mentioned because I'm too lazy to write it all down (I need printer ink) and go through it. I go through cycles of what I do on my computer, and I just haven't felt like putting in the work right now.
When we got our very first computer, my exes cousin came from IL and made the ex put it all together and set it up. He learned a lot. Cousin's reasoning was "if something goes wrong you'll know how things work..." and it came in handy.
But I will, eventually. I just need to be in that "mood" so to speak.
Anyway, I appreciate everything.