OK, then my vote is suck it up and eat the fruit.
...but next time you see her, don't waste any more of your or her time. Tell her what you know, what you're doing, what you've tried, what worked and what didn't and why you think she might be able to help you. All cards on the table. If she didn't ask and you didn't tell it's no flipping wonder her advice makes you go hmmm....
But Fruit and Veg is still better than just veg. When I notice my fruit intake has been lacking, I buy more exotic fruit. ....when it's about to go off and reduce to a fraction of it's price. Sometimes i then just watch it go off, but if you're in frugal mode, having a new piece of fruit that needs eating now might give you the nudge to eat it rather than contemplate it and decide you won't like it before you try it (like I do).
BTW, you mentioned not needing a snack. Snacking is not bad when you're trying to lose weight. just snack healthy, don't graze all day. little and often is a better approach to food. if you get really hungry between meals, you're often tempted to eat way to much at mealtimes.
And don't forget to drink water by the bucketload.