OK? Well he died a couple years ago, but I'd like to think he's doing better than he was when he didn't know who he was. Please don't apologize, you couldn't know, and I know it's awkward but I appreciate the sentiment... really.
Pop did the 32 degree Scottish Rite, (you know, ate the baby and everything
) and very active in MELHA for like 40 years. He brought my brother into it too, but I don't play well with others.