I appreciate all the concerns. He's a good guy, had a pretty rough upbringing with alcoholics and such. So he doesn't drink or smoke or anything like that, but i was that person. So he helped me to find healthier ways to spend my time. I don't have worries of him taking advantage because I'm a strong person when it comes to those things, I don't let anyone walk over me. And in any other aspect other than sex, i've been the one to dabble in things i shouldn't have.
I'm on the pill, have been on it for years because of hormonal issues. But I'm uber safe about protecting myself. He'll buy them for me too sometimes. I don't like being on them though, and my boyfriend said he would get surgery if that meant I wasn't pumping hormones into myself. I am receptive to everything you say.
Over the few months since I've posted this I've been feeling a lot better. We've been dating for over a year, and I'm not the easiest to deal with sometimes. So if he was just taking advantage, he would have been gone a while ago.
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