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Originally Posted by wolf
I believe that's just making you look more unreasonable and bitchy.
If you don't want another person disrupting your life, don't invite them into your life, or invite them as closely as you have Chatty Cathy.
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I didn't know she was like this when I said she could move in. I've known her for years and I thought she was really quiet... turns out she's really quiet at all times except mornings. I don't even need her to be quiet in the morning... just not try to engage me in meaningless banter. She can talk to herself or the pets all she wants without it bothering me, or talk to me about things that have a meaning and a purpose if she needs to. Just not the "blah-blah-blah, oh look Tiki it's orange do you like orange Tiki were you feeding the chickens carrots LOL I'm silly" stuff.
It's not a gigantic issue, it's just something that was frustrating me that I needed to vent about... you know, let off steam so that the resentment wouldn't build up. I actually WORK in my office, I get up at 7 am and pack lunches and take my kids to school and then come home to relax, drink a cup of tea and answer customer emails and get my head in a space where I can go to my studio and be productive. It's hard to do that when someone's grabbing for your attention every few minutes.
She's friends with all my friends, and is online in most of the places I'm online, so I figured I could vent about it here safely.