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Flint · 07-23-2009, 05:24 PM

Okay, I call bullshit. Being "nice" to people isn't what is going to help them. Giving your honest feedback is more kind, in the long term, than looking the other way. And I preface all of the above with the understanding that what we are talking about are comments posted on a public forum--which is explicitly an invitation for feedback.

The "both ways" that can't be had is whining about your problems and then lashing out at people for having formed a context, and making observations based on that context. Crying out for help and then not liking the response you get. Whose fault is that, really?

And don't lecture me. Do they have something called "tough love" where you are from? Google it.

This is the most pointless thread I've ever posted in.

07-23-2009, 05:24 PM	#51
Flint Snowflake Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Dystopia Posts: 13,136	Okay, I call bullshit. Being "nice" to people isn't what is going to help them. Giving your honest feedback is more kind, in the long term, than looking the other way. And I preface all of the above with the understanding that what we are talking about are comments posted on a public forum--which is explicitly an invitation for feedback. The "both ways" that can't be had is whining about your problems and then lashing out at people for having formed a context, and making observations based on that context. Crying out for help and then not liking the response you get. Whose fault is that, really? And don't lecture me. Do they have something called "tough love" where you are from? Google it. This is the most pointless thread I've ever posted in. __________________ **************** There's a level of facility that everyone needs to accomplish, and from there it's a matter of deciding for yourself how important ultra-facility is to your expression. ... I found, like Joseph Campbell said, if you just follow whatever gives you a little joy or excitement or awe, then you're on the right track. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Terry Bozzio** Last edited by Flint; 07-23-2009 at 05:29 PM.