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DucksNuts · 07-26-2009, 03:27 AM

Ok, this is gonna sound weird, but just go with me here....

What do you do when two totally *pleaser* lovers get together?...sounds awesome doesnt it? two people who's entire mission is to please each other within an inch of consciousness.

But what if one of those *pleasers* isnt really happy or satisified unless the other is totally happy and pleased?

What if the other *pleaser* relies so heavily on the pleasing to heighten their low self esteem, and cement the other's love for them?

Not looking so awesome now, huh?

Do you think a good long term sexual relationship needs a balance of please and receive?

Sure, a sexual relationship where one person is a giver and the other a taker, seems a great fit...but I cant see that working long term either.

07-26-2009, 03:27 AM	#1
DucksNuts Bitchy Little Brat Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Queensland, Australia Posts: 5,067	Pleaser + Pleaser = .....? Ok, this is gonna sound weird, but just go with me here.... What do you do when two totally pleaser lovers get together?...sounds awesome doesnt it? two people who's entire mission is to please each other within an inch of consciousness. But what if one of those pleasers isnt really happy or satisified unless the other is totally happy and pleased? What if the other pleaser relies so heavily on the pleasing to heighten their low self esteem, and cement the other's love for them? Not looking so awesome now, huh? Do you think a good long term sexual relationship needs a balance of please and receive? Sure, a sexual relationship where one person is a giver and the other a taker, seems a great fit...but I cant see that working long term either.