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I found that critiques don't work but then I don't have any music background.

I know what would make a song sound better and I know what I don't like about a song but just saying so when someone asks how they like their new song any critique just comes off as a bummer. I really don't think some musicians want honesty even when your best intentions are to help their career advance.

I really hate placating though and lying. It's a hard call.

edit- my choice would be between 1 and 2 depending on if she asked for advice. If she didn't ask I would chose option 1 because if she has just begun then she needs to experiment. The more confidence she can get the better she will be at figuring things out for herself. I guess I've decided on #1.