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Originally Posted by squirell nutkin
Ironically, seeing karma as some sort of punishment is rather passive and evading responsibility for one's situation and or actions. Looking at it as a direct result of one's actions is more empowering. The added BS of a judgment only obscures the issue.
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Agreed 100%. I usually heavily focus on personal growth when working on my and other people's problems and I found that when self-responsibility is accepted and followed up by self-improvement, those people bounce back much quicker than someone who externally blames their problems. Its much easier to get a boost of confidence from a "okay, I messed this, this, and this up and I will be successful next time by doing this, this, and this" mindset than "there is nothing wrong with me because of this, this, this. I just have bad luck".