So you can only call someone a big dic if you have evidence?
Would a photograph do?
ETA: oh yeah, and about that post where you said that if people leave because others are nasty, they're letting them win; I'd like to point out that for one thing, this is just an internet forum. It's unlikely that anyone is going to change their views if they've already resorted to insults and personal attacks.
and for Jumbo; would you like some cheese with your whine?