I am a very private person too.
I think those school time friends will always hold a special place but I have never tried to change my basic nature and when those special few happen they make it all the more special.
I think having a lot of acquaintances are good. I know tons of people but there are just a few who are really close and that's good by me.
I do admire those people who are social butterfly's. Oddly, my best friends are those social butterflies! The really nice great people kind anyway.
I would take Bruce's advice if expanding is what you want.
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