The Cellar - View Single Post - What age do you give up trying to find "fairy tale love"?

OnyxCougar · 11-25-2003, 08:05 PM

I don't think there is one person out there that is perfect for you, because people change over time. Someone who is perfect for you at age 18 may not be the one that is perfect for you at age 30. Every "serious" relationship that you have, I think, is more of a learning lesson than anything else. I was convinced that this guy was "The One" and I fought so hard to get him, only to be met with resistance at every turn. Finally I let him go (after a HUGE drama) and Steve fell into my sphere. There was no question for either of us that getting married was the right thing to do. I just hope that we change and evolve together, because I really like this one.

[thread hijack]On a side note, I have decided not to leave the Cellar, mostly due to Bruce's pep talk. I just need lessons in thickening up the skin and not caring about people that don't care about me.[/thread hijack]

11-25-2003, 08:05 PM	#3
OnyxCougar Junior Master Dwellar Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Kingdom of Atlantia Posts: 2,979	I don't think there is one person out there that is perfect for you, because people change over time. Someone who is perfect for you at age 18 may not be the one that is perfect for you at age 30. Every "serious" relationship that you have, I think, is more of a learning lesson than anything else. I was convinced that this guy was "The One" and I fought so hard to get him, only to be met with resistance at every turn. Finally I let him go (after a HUGE drama) and Steve fell into my sphere. There was no question for either of us that getting married was the right thing to do. I just hope that we change and evolve together, because I really like this one. [thread hijack]On a side note, I have decided not to leave the Cellar, mostly due to Bruce's pep talk. I just need lessons in thickening up the skin and not caring about people that don't care about me.[/thread hijack]