[Aliantha]

Honestly Dana, my grievance is not against you, and I'd rather not have you take offence at anything I post, but you can't try to be peacemaker in one post and then the very next tell me to fuck off...can you? That was all I meant. There's no need for any apology.

I don't really see it as martyrdom. I'm not putting myself on a block to have my head chopped off. It's just a case of the same people doing the same thing and it irritates me. I don't think it's fair and I hold myself still most of the time, but this thread is going on and on, and nothing is going to change. People will just do what they do and others will let it happen. I guess everyone sees things differently, and that's what makes the world go around, but I am honestly angry that a small group have made it less enjoyable for me to visit one of my favourite places on the net.