[xoxoxoBruce]

Originally posted by lumberjim
Yeah, buce it's THEIR business, and I would never presume to judge them or tell them about how I feel about such a sensitive issue. And Juju, it IS basically an "it's not natural " line of thinking. Sorry if you've heard this before, and if this is a tired argument, I'll gladly read old threads and not run you through it again. But, I was a little vague in my initial post on purpose. My opinion is based mainly on gut feel, and I don't have lots of info or fact to support it. That's why I ask how "we" feel. I think there is something to be said for the philosophy of " if it feels right, do it"......so why SHOULD I be OK with it. If i'm accurately interpreting your tone to mean that you would defend it?

No. My first thought was to not post but then I realized I do have an opinion, which is *they* are the only ones that have all the factual and emotional data needed to make this decision.