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When your time comes, you'll know the answer, T. Until then, don't fret, enjoy what scraps of love and companionship come your way, and enjoy your time as a singleton. When you are ready to become part of a pair, you'll know, and whether that time is brought about by true love or compatabilty and a need for companionship is something you don't need to fret about until you get there. I think most mistakes in marriage are made by people marrying before they're ready, whether through peer pressure or desire to procreate or some other reason.

For some people that moment never comes, they are never ready. Such is life. Those who accept that and embrace it are generally happier than those who feel an obligation to get married/can't resist the temptation to try it and so make a poor choice. Like sneaking a peek at the last page of the whodunnit.