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BigV · 08-12-2010, 11:33 AM

Hey JBK,

I have been in similar situations before, and for me, the key factor is "...wants nothing to do with you...". Heed this. More important that her marital status, more important than how much time you've put into the relationship, you should not be where you're not welcome, and most especially when it comes to a woman's heart.

I understand (to the very limited extent you've shared here) how difficult and painful this revelation can be. And how unpleasant the consistent advice you've heard to this point can be. But you should move on. You might get called back later, but you're being shut out now. Take charge of your own feet and tell them to carry your heart off to safer better places.

08-12-2010, 11:33 AM	#11
BigV Goon Squad Leader Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Seattle Posts: 27,063	Hey JBK, I have been in similar situations before, and for me, the key factor is "...wants nothing to do with you...". Heed this. More important that her marital status, more important than how much time you've put into the relationship, you should not be where you're not welcome, and most especially when it comes to a woman's heart. I understand (to the very limited extent you've shared here) how difficult and painful this revelation can be. And how unpleasant the consistent advice you've heard to this point can be. But you should move on. You might get called back later, but you're being shut out now. Take charge of your own feet and tell them to carry your heart off to safer better places. __________________ Be Just and Fear Not.