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You certainly seemed to be making the comparison.
There is a lot wrong with a 50-something woman mooching off of her mother. It is other people's business...at least its the family's business. My mother is going to be the one to take care of my g-ma when she gets old, not my aunt. So my mother does have the right to get upset that my g-ma is going to be broke and unable to support herself cuz she gave all her money to the other daughter.