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Originally Posted by Number 2 Pencil
I think it would be difficult if my future in-laws knew I was not christian judging from comments they have made to me in the past. They live in another state so I don't see them much. I feel dishonest in a way by misrepresenting myself through inaction as being a christian with my in-laws, and I may one day have to tackle that fact with them.
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Meh. Lots of folks do a dog-and-pony show for their in-laws, and for their own parents. It's expected, and most people don't have a big moral quandary about it. On the other hand, as glatt says, your relationship with your wife, especially regarding future children, needs to be honest, and mutually agreed upon. Have that conversation before the wedding.