Riddil,
I myself have just come out of a relationship much the same as you have been describing. My ex would do ANYTHING I asked, and he would listen to me very intently, but he too would talk constant crap and it often bored the shit out of me (although I never let on). Tim was INCREDIBLY good looking, But would insist on watching cartoons every morning which drove me insane. We lived together for two years, but had been together since I was 17. We were comfortable. When we were together it was really good, but not great. I loved him and was contently happy but at the back of my mind I knew there was something more out there, someone I would connect with better on a mental scale. So I made the decision to move out and move back to my dads home (6hours from Tim) and while the distance made it easier for the recovery, I started to feel much better in myself... Until he moved to live near me again, and when I was seeing him again in our social groups, I started to think I had made a mistake. So foolishly I started spending time with him alone again. But it was never the same. After having that time apart I had started to get over him and then having him back again was such a let down. I had rocked the boat too much and so much water was already inside that the decent under water was inevitable. Advice I can give you is that you make it either black, or white. There cant be any grey area as far as I am concerned because that CAN destroy the scrap of relationship that you have left. Which hurts you both even more. So I would recommend staying clear of her until you decide what it is that you want to do.
I wouldn’t worry about being alone too long if I were you either. I wouldn't argue with anyone saying you were HOT! Damn boy!!
