[BigV]

I have a question:

What is Mrs Foot's degree of dedication to the union?

I realize that you might (probably) want to ignore this question here, STFU, perfectly fine responses. I ask from my own experience. As plain as it is to say out loud, it was surprisingly easy to overlook in my own thoughts at the time. I might want to keep the marriage intact, but if Tink wanted to end it, it was over. Each party has the right and the ability to end it (passively, consciously, actively, neglectfully, etc etc.). It takes two to make it work.

Do you want it to work?

Does she want it to work?

Is the desire of each explicitly known to the other?

Unless you have three yes answers in a row there, you absolutely have a deal breaking problem.