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last night he walked home from work (3 miles) with a dozen roses and a card (which have been destroyed, they just reminded me of when he gave me flowers in july and sent her that letter)
i told him that if this is a greencard marriage, that i will receive payment. i want my $8,000 credit card debt paid off and a diamond. he said he was going to do that anyway. i said if my credit cards are not paid off in next year, no marriage, no greencard. i said if he's using me, he can forget about the green card. well, he swears that he is going to fix me financially and stay with me until death do us part.
i guess i have to wait 1 1/2 years until he gets his green card until i know if i can fully trust him and love him again. if he leaves me, i can console myself with the fact that i bettered myself financially. BUT, really, there is no amount of money in the world that could make up for the pain of finding out that he was using me.
he says that tomorrow night, while i am working, he is going to come to the cellar and tell everyone his side. he thinks i am giving only my point of view and that is why everyone is saying "he's using you...he's a liar..." i am interested to see how he can defend himself...
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