It ain't over yet. Another update:
Just FYI, I decided to take ******** up on his request that we let him know if we thought he “should do something different” about the ***** **** e-mail.
I told **** that, although reasonable minds could differ on how best to proceed, if I were *** ****s parents (assuming, of course, that *** and ***** ****are the same person), I would very much want to know that my 11 or 12-year-old daughter had written such a foul and inappropriate e-mail. He acknowledged that he has gone back and forth -- and that he even asked someone recently to ascertain the parents’ contact information from the volunteer who knows the family (who, incidentally, also believes the parents should be told about the e-mail).
**** thanked me for calling and said he will take my position “under advisement”; and I assured him I would respect whatever decision he ultimately makes ...
Regards,
****
P.S. We also discussed the fact that the radio station which conducted the silent auction did, in fact, screw up -- and that ***/***** had a right to be upset (if only she had expressed her displeasure in a more appropriate manner).
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