Ahhh. Gotcha.
I don't think that's Ibs being pretentious, but rather she's reached a judgement on JB's ability to accept certain types of subculture. Whether that's a fair judgement is not for me to say, but it didn't exactly come out of the blue or without any cause.
Just because JB is a sub-culture of one all by his very self, does not mean that he has any acceptance of difference in others, particularly if they breach his faith-based moral boundaries, which most of the sub-cultures Ibs is/has been a part of would. As indeed wuold the sub-culture that bore the Polari language.
You defended JB and his right to be different in these boards. That doesn't obligate Ibs to modify her opinion of JB one iota.
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