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It's my contention that many, nay, MOST of our childhood inclinations and tendencies, like loving to read, or being athletic, liking broccoli, exhibiting abusive behavior, do not just disappear. You do not just grow out of it.
Again (and quit saying I'm assuming stuff, you're hell bent on finding some sort of relief for him in this situation and I'm hell bent on trying to make you see your folly) we wouldn't be having this discussion if he had abused a woman.
Sissy gay boy should have been able to fight, right?
Really. It's not justifiable. There's no reason to assume that amid all the things he is and all the things he purports to stand for (and just as important, things he chooses NOT to stand for) this one itty bitty incident is probably just a one time thing and is no indication of any sort of REAL abusive gay-hating tendency.
How can you logically make such a self-contained leap? He's an asshole and blah blah blah, but this was probably OK? I don't get that. yeah, it was just the one time.
No.
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