Well, he's thrown me a big curve. Offered a very generous settlement and an immediate divorce (the earliest we could both sign is in about two weeks) to try to get me to stay civil. I'd like to be civil - until I'm safely out of the house. I'm not looking to take the scorched-earth route if I can avoid it, but I don't want to be pursued/stalked forever as he refuses to let go of me ... but that might happen no matter which route I take. I'm thinking maybe I should grab the offer and run ...
Am I being a gullible airhead here?