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plthijinx · 06-21-2012, 05:39 PM

good luck!

10 years ago my wife left me right after the adoption of our son was finalized. we split albeit not too amicably. heck, when she moved out she got a hernia and i was thrilled. "serves you right" i thought at the time. then she got it fixed. by my father. kinda made me take a step back and re-assess the situation.

at the time that she moved out, i still got to see my then 18 month old son almost every day. i paid my child support on time, and still do to this day.

point here is: I did get over it eventually. was i a loon then? no, just crushed that it didn't work out i guess. today though, she is a great mother to my child, we get along just fine and as well as things are, all around it's not that bad. could be worse.

hope that little trip down memory lane helped.

06-21-2012, 05:39 PM	#8043
plthijinx Master Dwellar Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 4,197	good luck! 10 years ago my wife left me right after the adoption of our son was finalized. we split albeit not too amicably. heck, when she moved out she got a hernia and i was thrilled. "serves you right" i thought at the time. then she got it fixed. by my father. kinda made me take a step back and re-assess the situation. at the time that she moved out, i still got to see my then 18 month old son almost every day. i paid my child support on time, and still do to this day. point here is: I did get over it eventually. was i a loon then? no, just crushed that it didn't work out i guess. today though, she is a great mother to my child, we get along just fine and as well as things are, all around it's not that bad. could be worse. hope that little trip down memory lane helped. __________________ For your dreams to come true, you must first have a dream.