[BigV]

Originally Posted by Ibby

I... refuse to attach the images, but
submitted for your consideration.
As evidence that the issue here isn't just liking purdy lady-bits.

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to me this reads like:

I'm imagining something, and I'm really upset by it. I could mention it but you should already know it because it's just so upsetting. I'll be clear about my upset, but I won't be clear about what it is, just a hint. And if you don't know what I'm talking about, I'm even more upset about that!

Ibby.

Please don't communicate like this. I can see the appeal to preserve your purity by not repeating the porno-equivalent of the "n-word" but it is a recipe for disaster when it comes to clarifying and settling differences. I speak from long experience. Be clear. Communication is hard enough when we use our words to our best ability, deliberately declining to be clear is an abdication.