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Old 08-08-2012, 02:38 AM   #11
xoxoxoBruce
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Originally Posted by orthodoc View Post
The university is totally rigid with dates for dropping courses. If I have chemo and it spans both first and second semesters (because it doesn't start until November, with an October surgery), thereby scuttling both, I won't be able to make it up and I'll be out of the program. Meaning I won't graduate my residency, won't be able to write my Boards, and won't be employable on the other side of all this (assuming there IS an other side). The more delay, the better the chance that I'm screwed.
That sounds like a violation of the Americans With Disabilities Act, to me.
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I let him know how things were looking last week, before I got the path report, and ... silence. He's gone to radio silence. Wtf, I only wanted to be friends, and friends ... at least say 'so sorry' before they bail. I wasn't even worth a 'so sorry but I can't deal with this'?
Are you sure he felt the same way, and not more serious intentions? Did you tell him before you went to cowgirl camp? Since you haven't communicated you really don't know what he's thinking, you may have blown his mind and he's trying to figure out what to do. I'm just speculating here, just saying it's not black and white... it's never black and white.
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These men who sing sad songs on videos about waiting on a woman and having their hearts broken and all that? I haven't met any.
Wait, weren't you married until just recently? That makes it a little awkward for random guys to prove their devotion.
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...nice, normal men.
Bwahahahahahahaha Normal, what the hell is that?
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...If they were all in happy, fulfilling relationships I'd be happy just to know they existed, it'd restore some of my confidence in the human race.
I've got more faith in the human race than I do in happy, fulfilling relationships, but that's a variable depending on an individual's definition of said same.
The only thing I can promise you is we here in the Cellar will stick by you no matter what.
Fuck cancer.
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