Originally posted by staceyv
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of the 149 posts, only a handful are regarding his most recent lie, which sent me questioning evrything all over again.
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The information you have provided about him points to the conclusion that he lies a lot and will continue to lie a lot. So, to keep the thread going every time he lies is what led me to call this a "never-ending" thread.
At some point, you are going to need to take matters into your own hands and decide to either trust and stay or leave. My point isn't that you are bothering anyone its that you are choosing NOT to decide but instead restate the obvious and THAT is what is making my hair hurt.
I'm not trying to censor your thread - I'm suggesting that you quit complaining when your husband continues to do exactly what he has done in the past. This isn't an irreconcilable difference - it seems to me to resemble Elionwyr's situation where it just got to the point where the relationship was more trouble than it was worth.
I could be wrong about this but its my sense that you prefer a bad relationship over no relationship. Unless I missed something, I have yet to notice that you considered, if even only for a millisecond, the possibility of leaving him. To never have even considered it is not a good sign given how miserable you are. If so, then until that changes, nothing else will and we might as well convert this thread to a forum.