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Originally posted by staceyv
MY FINAL THOUGHTS ON THIS:
Is the type of love he can give, the type of love I want and need?
yes, with the one exception.(trust issues)
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Which is a HUGE issue.
Do not underestimate it.
I'm agreeing with the others. If there's one part of this equation you can't accept, you're going to keep on being unhappy.
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...i have distanced myself sooo much, but i want to wait and see what time will heal, and i want to see what his efforts are. and i know that i'll come around soon enough and start being nice, because he has that effect on me. it hurts me to be cold to him....
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It's NOT that easy to come back from being distant.
It will become a Very Large Issue in your relationship, if it's not already.
Conversely, if you keep changing your mind - "I'm distant and cold because you've hurt me but I love you so I'm going to be nice now" - that not only creates more problems in the relationship, it also keeps the cycle going.
As I said - been there, done that, have a nice lil' place of my own now.
But if you want to talk offline at any point, please feel free to PM me.
Good luck!