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Old 03-04-2004, 03:22 PM   #171
ladysycamore
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Originally posted by perth

You're right. I take back calling him a dick. But I stand by the rest, for now.
Well then, I'll say it: He's acting *like* a dick. His behavior is deplorable. The only thing that I can say for him is that at least he's admitted it. HOWEVER, if he KNOWS that he's this way, then he damned well should not BE with anyone until he's able to change (or at least control himself better). All he's doing is screwing up Stacey's head up, and stressing her out and making her question a lot of things. IMO, she's using up vital energy that she could be putting to better use...like to heal herself and make herself stronger in order to face what the world is going to throw at her (and boy oh boy, we could all use a titanium backbone to deal with the crazy ass world today!!!).

Basically, it sounds like the trust in him is withering away. He definitely needs to regain her trust, and IMO, she needs to be away from him to do that.
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