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Yeah...sounds a little like I was at that age too. I was fortunate in that whilst J was as screwed up as I was when we met at 18 he grew up into a lovely man.
Tell you what though: thinking back to the kind of all in mentality I had at that time, the sudden cessation of welfare would not have forced me out of there. In your daughter's situation, at that age I'd have followed the guy down into penury and instability.
I'd be very cautious of intervening in any way with their domestic setup, regardless of how anonymous it is.
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