I'm so frustrated for you right now, ortho. This is absolutely the time for you to be completely selfish, to heal yourself. And your kids need to get a hold of themselves, to be there for you and provide every kind of support that they can. They really need to stop thinking about themselves right now, and concentrate on you.
And you have every right to tell them so! You being strong for you, and them being strong for you, is what will help you get through this cancer crap!
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