What exactly are you trying to achieve?
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Originally Posted by henry quirk
I don't spend a lot of time codifying principles to transmit to the six-year old Great BEAST of the Apocalypse but three I repeat often...
-Make do with what you got.
Example: the toy in your hand is pretty much the same as the new and improved model advertised on the TV...make do with what you got, BEAST!
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What can we do to make what you have even better than the "new and improved" version you (don't) see on TV (because we hippies don't watch shit like that)?
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-Be patient.
Example: yes, we're goin' to the park, but not for another hour...be patient, BEAST!
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"this is what we have to do before we go to the park. it's going to be a while -would you like to make a checklist of the shit we have to get done first/why don't you get lost in a book and we can set an alarm so you know when it's time to stop reading and go."
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-Don't overcomplicate it.
Example: no, you don't need the hand-truck to move one, empty, box...don't overcomplicate it, BEAST!
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using the handtruck is fun. Is it hurting anyone? BE PATIENT, guardian
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The above three are, it seems, codifications bubbling up from natural circumstances that happen often with me and the BEAST.
Any of you parents/caretakers have similar, naturally occurring, codifications, peculiar to your circumstances?
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Life isn't fair is the only one you need.
Other than that, you need tenets for guardians, not kids.
1) Chill FFS. You were a kid once, you made it, it can't be all that hard
2) They learn nothing if you tell the what to do and/or how to do it ...unless they ask