[lumberjim]

So, this old dude was married to your gram, but she has passed. But he still involves himself in your family? She never had any kids with him did she? So there is no real tie, neither blood nor marriage. I guess you must be all he has left. Otherwise, I'd think that he would return to his clan for family gatherings like holidays. Does some other member of your family like him and keep in contact?

I guess that's normal, but it seems odd to me for some reason. I don't know why. I guess it's pretty cool off y'all to include him. He must get pretty lonely.