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Go ahead, knock yourself out.
Both women and men are generalised in every day conversation and on this forum. Check out Flint's recent posts, which have been supported by men as indicative of the behaviour of women. And women do the same, although I think less on this forum than I've heard suggested happens in real life (dunno, never in my groups of friends is all I can say.)

I think all we can do it take each situation on its merits and deal with the people we know. LJ doesn't know Dazza. He knows Ali. If he thinks Ali is a cunt then that's his opinion. But he might think Daz was a dick if he knew him too.

I dislike the word used and the immediate "us against them" reaction.
Is all.