[lumberjim]

As with any group of people you know, you start with 70% asshole to non asshole ratio. So it doesn;t sound like you're too far from the norm. You don't have to like it though. Just act like a bigger asshat than they do. Maybe you can scare some of them away. If you're not going to beat your nephew up, you could at least broach the subject......" So, Nephew, When are you going to stop beating your wife?" real casual like.....

That'll earn her a fresh one for sure!

Just start telling them what you think of them. Criticize them openly. sew dissent among them. Do things like......When you are talking to someone, and somebody else walks up, look at them and say, " Here he is now, why don;t you say it to his face?"...and walk away. That works best if there is already some distrust or friction between your victims. Fuck with them, blue, take em apart. and dont bother covering your tracks. At least you can have some fun manipulating them.