let me clarify.
I in no way condone hitting anyone in anger. Especially your dependants or your life partner. What I was saying was that in SOME cases, the woman ( or the man if it happens to be reversed) can purposefully instigate the abuser into losing control, because they enjoy some control for a short time afterward. This because of the guilt that the abuser feels toward what they have done.
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