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Originally posted by Sun_Sparkz
but if your attracted to WOMEN, wouldnt that make you less atracted to women who look like men? wouldnt you be attracted to women that look like women?
Are there any guys out there who are attracted to masculine women? If so, does this make anyone around them suspicious that they are gay?
I know this girl who is very masculine, and i admit, sometimes... she is attractive to me. but only for her masculine qualities. because i like men. i just dont get it.
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I've got this theory. (Everybody: *groan*)
People have two (or more) parameters: sexual self-identity, and sexual attraction.
So "dykes" would self-identify as more male, but would be sexually attracted to women.
A "lipstick lesbian" would self-identify as female, but would be sexually attracted to women, too.
Repeat with men.
Perhaps there's a third axis too -- compatability. Do you get along with a more masculine personality, or a more feminine one?
For the record, I self-identify as more masculine, but am attracted to men... Not "dyke" (I have long hair, love to cook and like jewelry) but have been accused of having more balls than most men.
Is that a bad thing?
- Pie