[classicman]

I was that way till my GF got pregnant, so I married her. I stopped doing all the stupid shit and tried to be a good parent/partner.
We had 3 kids & I had 2-3 jobs for the next 15 years or so. She never worked. Wanted to be a stay at home mom... found out after the fact that she was using the whole time & was cheating on me. We divorced.
I'm still trying to be a good dad and partner (with a different person)
She is on husband #3 and job # 20ish. She is a dry drunk who cheats every year for sympathy ...
she still gets its from some.

I'd like to think I stopped being a lazy asshole. I wish she would because she is the mother of my kids and is still setting a shitty example for them.

My kids are all in their 20's now. None of them are as bad as she and I were.