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			Sorry to hear you're splitting up.  It's hard no matter what you do.  It took me 3 years of serious depression before I could even date again.  She was already re-married and he was living in the house I paid for by that point.   
 
I am not friends with my ex and I'm thankful we didn't have children together.  We didn't have them because she was selfish but it's best we didn't.   
 
Now she is someone else's problem and she's got the worst punishment I could wish on anyone and so does her new husband.  They both have to live with her. 
 
It's nice to see you both being cordial and kind to each other.  I don't know how you have the strength to manage it.  The few times I saw my wife after our divorce, got me choked up and hardly able to talk.   
 
Best wishes to you both even though I don't always get along with you.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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