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A man can have children he gets to see everyday and doesn't pay child support for even without being married. He can have a child with his girlfriend who happens to live with him and see his child everyday. And he can even have custody of that child if they split up. A man is every bit as loving, caring, and able to care for a child as a woman.
Believe me, I am well aware that a man is more than capable of caring for a child. But in most courts, unless the mother is cooperating, or shown to have a criminal record, the man will not get custody. Shall we say it happens about as often as a man walks into a bar and immediately finds someone willing to have sex with him?
I will grant you that if his girlfriend is willing to simply live with him and have children, it is possible. But you know that's not the norm, otherwise you wouldn't be bitching about women so much. And the girlfriend has total control in that situation--he risks having to pay child support and never see the kid again should she choose to leave, just as much as the married man risks losing half of everything and paying alimony the rest of his life.
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