I once talked a person out of a relationship to be with me. I later got dumped when said girl found interest in some other guy.
The lesson I learned was that if you ever ruin a relationship for your own interest, don't be surprised when it happens to you.
That said, I figure that the basic concept expressed before (intent) is probably the truest. I like to keep it pretty cut and dried. If someone's flirting with someone, near or afar, it doesn't really matter. Their intentions show enough.
-disenchanted.
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