Sometimes people are working out of a completely subjective filter, and sometimes they are being completely objective when they tell you that you stink and need to get a bath. This may hurt but it will help you, and your intimacy problems, if you just go get the bath as directed. It may even save your life....
It's a little more complex than the paragraph above. Sounds neat...but it isn't always the way to deal with a criticism.....
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Show me a sane man, and I will cure him for you.- Carl Jung
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