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Old 11-07-2008, 05:14 PM   #1136
Sundae
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Originally Posted by Sheldonrs View Post
Would you rather have sex with someone who you are extremely attracted to but who isn't very good at sex; or would you prefer someone you are not attracted to but who is a sex master?
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Originally Posted by Shawnee123 View Post
If I'm attracted to someone...a sweet kiss will send me over the edge.

I think. It's been a long long time.
Same here. On both counts!
But... Depends whether you mean emotionally or physically.
I was completely smitten with a very bad man. I thought sex with him was the absolute pinnacle of great sex. I believed I loved him and he used that knowledge to keep me on a string.

I had a far more honest relationship with a man who I held at arm's length - as he did me - emotionally. But the sex was GREAT! We were equal partners and he treated me wonderfully in bed, as I did him.

"Skill" in matters sexual is a pretty cold thing without passion. But passion can be manipulated by people to selfish ends.

But then I have no recent expertise to draw on. Right now, if I got a good snog I'd probably pass out from the blood rush to my nether regions.
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