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xoxoxoBruce · 06-23-2007, 10:57 PM

Deuce, it someone you love causes you pain repeatedly, assuming you've told them it does, they are not loving you back. You should reassess your relationship.

If you think your suicide will cut them to the quick, make them feel guilty for causing you pain for the rest of their lives, you're dreaming. First of all they won't connect your suicide to themselves at all... even if you leave a note or tell them ahead of time, they will say you were just nuts.

There is no possible way your suicide would hurt anyone but yourself.
I take that back, there is one. In rare cases someone might be affected traumatically, and will hate you, speak ill of you, forever... but that's not common.

So if someone's remarks are causing you pain you've got to learn to laugh it off, consider the source, or get the hell away from them.
No, suicide is not getting away from them, it's letting them get away with it.

06-23-2007, 10:57 PM	#6
xoxoxoBruce The future is unwritten Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 71,105	Deuce, it someone you love causes you pain repeatedly, assuming you've told them it does, they are not loving you back. You should reassess your relationship. If you think your suicide will cut them to the quick, make them feel guilty for causing you pain for the rest of their lives, you're dreaming. First of all they won't connect your suicide to themselves at all... even if you leave a note or tell them ahead of time, they will say you were just nuts. There is no possible way your suicide would hurt anyone but yourself. I take that back, there is one. In rare cases someone might be affected traumatically, and will hate you, speak ill of you, forever... but that's not common. So if someone's remarks are causing you pain you've got to learn to laugh it off, consider the source, or get the hell away from them. No, suicide is not getting away from them, it's letting them get away with it. __________________ The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.