[Aliantha]

Oh well, at least you can ask your husband for help then. I get kind of annoyed with my kids for repeatedly doing the same annoying stuff over and over. I think it's part of growing up in a way, and they probably will keep being annoying till they have their own place and are forced to wake up to themselves. Either that or have kids of their own who are annoying.

It's not so good if he doesn't respect your house rules though, and I don't think there's anything wrong with being strict about them so that you don't have to feel like you're always picking up after someone else. That's simply not fair.