Thanks, xoB. I feel good about it, but, you know . . . bittersweet.
My SIL and I thought long and hard about how to do this without getting arrested or causing a wreck.
Instead of driving down the freeway leaving a trail of dust and drama behind us, we decided to slowly sprinkle a cup of dad's ashes off an overpass. We chose Sunset Blvd.
Then, we drove "west on Sunset, to the sea . . . The end of a perfect day."
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pAuPMJlK92s