I went out to eat sushi with my wife, Pooka, last night. My mom watched the kids. We had a great time. I don't have any reason to want more "guy friends" to do "guy stuff" with--I can't imagine a better person to hang out with than my wife. I can be perfectly honest with her, and there's nothing that I want to talk about that she doesn't "get."
When I get time off from work, school, and everything else I have to do, I don't want a big cast of multiple, so-so friends. I want a few (very few) good ones.
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There's a level of facility that everyone needs to accomplish, and from there
it's a matter of deciding for yourself how important ultra-facility is to your
expression. ... I found, like Joseph Campbell said, if you just follow whatever
gives you a little joy or excitement or awe, then you're on the right track.
. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Terry Bozzio
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