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Because some of you may have pushed each other around out of anger in past relationships doesn't make it right or normal. If he's asking for advice, he must feel the anger is inappropriate, and pushing and grabbing someone's arm (twisting? digging fingers in?) might just be showing a containment of a much deeper urge.
Sorry, been there, and it wasn't mutual. And it wasn't fun.
Hey, some people LIKE physical drama in a relationship. I found it to be soul sapping and painful.
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A word to the wise ain't necessary - it's the stupid ones who need the advice.
--Bill Cosby
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